Real Advice on Dating

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19 year old Yemisi was recently on the Wendy Williams Show asking why the guys around her age that she likes just want to hit it and quit it!…While she on the other hand is trying to save herself for marriage, but doesn’t want to be alone in the interim.

Oh, the naïveté of youth...

In response, Wendy advised that the truth is most guys her age with their hormones raging only want to hit it and quit it to satisfy their sexual needs and if she doesn’t want to let them do that to her, then they probably won’t want anything to do with her in this stage of their lives, especially when many fast girls are more than willing to oblige them. 

So, Wendy advised that she will have to wait till she’s more mature and dealing with more mature men. I would say this used to be the case, but honey the way the world is now, even many older men are lustfully looking for young immature girls they can take advantage of because they are just looking to hit it and quit it as well. And if you don't let them hit it, they move right along the next girl or woman who is more than willing to accomodate their wants and needs.

That's one reason why there are so many single parents everywhere raising children by themselves. Also remember that those children are those whose parents didn't use protection or where the pregnancies weren't aborted. So in the big scheme of things, there's a lot of "physical coupling" occuring to have the numbers we see.

Looking at the dating landscape and what occurs, it's really not an encouraging situation. Sorry, it’s just the way it is…So, dear Yemisi, take heart. God will send you your man at the right time, but he will do that on his time table, not yours. So keep keeping yourself for your future husband even though it will be a challenge, but I know you are up to the challenge. 

Goodluck!